Planning a baby shower? Whether you're the glowing mom-to-be, a bestie stepping up to host, or a family member ready to celebrate, this guide is for you! From who's in charge to baby shower theme ideas and even a planning checklist, we’ve got everything you need to throw a beautiful, stress-free celebration—with a little help from adorable printables, of course. 

So... Who Traditionally Plans a Baby Shower?

Here’s the scoop: a close friend or a more distant relative (like an aunt or cousin) usually hosts the baby shower. Traditionally, immediate family—like the mom-to-be herself, sisters, or parents—would avoid hosting to steer clear of seeming like they’re asking for gifts. But guess what? Traditions are evolving!

These days, it’s not unusual to see sisters, even the mama herself, or a group of besties co-host a modern baby shower. The most important thing? That the mom-to-be feels loved and supported.

And Who Pays for It All?

If you’re wondering who’s footing the bill, the answer is simple: the host pays. If it’s a solo host, they typically handle everything, but more often than not, a group of friends or family members chip in and co-host to spread out the expenses—and the fun!

Guests should never be expected to contribute to the party costs. They’re already gifting something special for the baby, so it’s best to keep it generous and gracious on the host’s part.

Do You Need a Baby Shower Theme?

Not really. But... do themes make it way more fun? Absolutely! 🥳

While themes aren’t a must, they do make planning easier—from invitations and decorations to matching printable signs, favor tags, and thank-you cards. A clear theme helps tie everything together and gives your shower that “Instagram-worthy” vibe everyone loves.

Nesting Parties & Coed Showers – Modern Twists on the Classic Baby Shower

Looking for a fresh spin on the traditional baby shower? Two newer trends are popping up more and more: nesting parties and coed showers—and they’re every bit as special.

A nesting party is a low-key gathering where close friends and family help the parents-to-be prepare their home for baby’s arrival. Think of it as a cozy get-together with purpose—organizing the nursery, folding tiny onesies, stocking the changing station, or assembling baby gear (yes, even that tricky stroller!). It’s perfect for parents who want quality time and a little help with their to-do list. Add snacks, music, and cute signs from our printable shop, and you’ve got a heartfelt, productive celebration.

Coed baby showers, on the other hand, invite both women and men to join the fun. These showers are great for couples who want to celebrate together with all their loved ones—dads, uncles, grandpas, guy friends, and all. They're usually a bit more casual, with games, food, and themes everyone can enjoy. Popular coed themes include backyard BBQs, brunch & bubbles, or even sporty celebrations. The vibe is relaxed, inclusive, and all about community—and yes, you can still have printable signs, invitations, and games that match!

Best Baby Shower Theme Ideas (With Options for Everyone!)

If you're on the hunt for the perfect theme, we’ve got you covered. Whether you want something gender-neutral, planning for a baby boy, or welcoming a baby girl, these ideas are both trendy and timeless.

🎉 Gender-Neutral Baby Shower Themes

1. On to the Next Chapter – A storybook-inspired theme with vintage books, warm neutrals, and literary touches for the next big adventure.
2. Twinkle Twinkle Little Star – Gold and silver stars, dreamy moons, and a soft nighttime palette.
3. Little Honey Bee – A buzzing cute mix of yellow, black, and white, perfect for spring or summer.
4. A Little Wildflower Is on the Way – Soft florals, pastel tones, and garden-inspired details create a dreamy and delicate celebration.

💙 Baby Shower Themes for Boys

1. Ahoy, It’s a Boy! – Nautical navy and red, sailboats, and anchors galore.
2. Little Adventurer – Mountains, bears, and outdoorsy fun for the future explorer.
3. Polo Teddy Bear Theme – Classic navy, cozy textures, and preppy teddy bear accents bring timeless charm to this upscale baby shower.

4. Planes, Trains, and Automobiles – A travel-themed celebration for your little jet-setter.

💖 Baby Shower Themes for Girls

1. Baby in Bloom – Florals, blush pinks, and greenery—classic and charming.
2. Tiny Dancer – Ballet slippers, tulle, and touches of gold.
3. Fairytale Princess – Castles, crowns, and a royal color palette (pastels or metallics).
4. Peaches & Cream – Sweet peachy hues with creamy whites for a refreshing and feminine look.

🖨️ Want to elevate your baby shower theme with matching stationery? At marryful, we offer printable baby shower invitations, welcome signs, games, and decor to help you style your party effortlessly.

Conclusion

Baby showers are more than parties—they’re heartfelt celebrations of life, motherhood, and love. Whether you're going big or keeping it intimate, with the right plan (and pretty printables!), your baby shower will be beautiful, meaningful, and memorable.

If you’re ready to start styling your theme, check out our full collection of baby shower printables here. You’ll find everything from invitations to favor tags, editable and easy to print at home.